Hockey team becomes hockey family

Column by Patrick Sullivan. E-mail opinions@kykernel.com.

Life can be lost so quickly.

This cliche became all too real yesterday afternoon when I lost a friend and former teammate in Taylor Vit.

Taylor and I transferred to UK our sophomore year and played hockey together that year. We had different experiences with the team — I was a fringe defenseman; he was a bona fide star.

Despite his star status, Taylor was easy to connect with. He embraced the team concept and helped build morale in the locker room. Taylor was a very grounded superstar, despite being a go-to player for virtually every scenario on the ice.

That’s why people will miss him.

Sure, Taylor possessed elite hockey skills — he played Division III hockey in upstate New York before coming to UK — but he was only a hockey star on the weekends here. What he did off the ice will solidify his place in UK Hockey’s history.

My fondest memory of Taylor actually came on a day that I’d like to forget.

In fall of my junior year, I was the only returning player cut from the hockey team.

After that fateful tryout, I was forced to wait in the parking lot while my friends who made the team attended a meeting to plan the season. When the meeting adjourned, Taylor was the first player to console me. We were not the best of friends, but him telling me to keep my head up was a testament to his character and leadership.

It’s actions like this that make the ripple effect of Taylor’s death so easy to understand.

The hockey team transformed one of its signs into a memorial for Taylor. Players, fans and alumni offered condolences via Facebook by turning their profile pictures into a blue and white 14, Taylor’s hockey number. To witness a sea of these blue and white 14s in my news feed was simply chilling.

What’s even more chilling is what’s coming next. I am certain the hockey team will remember its fallen star in a very classy and sentimental manner.

I’ve always been a firm believer in the unity of hockey teams. No stronger bond exists in sports. The team has proved this already by transforming from the UK Hockey team into the UK Hockey family. The outpouring of support from current players and alumni has been remarkable and makes me proud to call myself a hockey player, and a former UK Hockey player at that.

While the score sheet will no longer be littered with Taylor’s goals and assists, he will have an even bigger presence in the hockey and UK community. Most fans will remember him for sniping goaltenders or maneuvering around defensemen with ease, but the UK Hockey family will remember Taylor for more than the superstar he was.

Club hockey players only get five years of eligibility, but Taylor will be an active member of the team forever and I don’t think a single fan, player or official, will mind.

Patrick Sullivan is a journalism and English senior. E-mail opinions@kykernel.com.

8 Responses to Hockey team becomes hockey family

  1. Well said, Patrick. A lot of thoughts and prayers are with the UK hockey family and with Taylor’s family in Pennsylvania.

  2. Beautifully stated, Pat. You are absolutely right about hockey teams – we are family! Our love and prayers to the Vit’s, along with our forever bond of friendship.

  3. Well said, Pat. Thanks buddy.

  4. Mr. Sullivan, if you’re not planning on going into writing as a profession I suggest you reassess. Simply awesome.

  5. Son, you have a heart as big as Texas and a kind soul. It something I always hoped you’d have and you’ve exceeded my greatest expectations and hopes. I mourn the loss of your pal and teammate. I applaud your ability to express your feelings in a sensitive, dignified manner. I am sure Taylor’s parents are as proud of him as I am of you. It’s a terrible thing to bury a sibling or a son (as you know I know), but no one ever dies in vain. Everyone makes an impact on our lives. Clearly, Taylor made one on yours. I’m proud of your ability to express it.

  6. What a sad, yet loving article! I am very sorry for all the hearts that are breaking for this young man. I am glad that he touched so many lives and he will continue to live on in you all. Please know there are others praying for your comfort.

  7. I had the priviledge of playing against Taylor. Even as an opponent I could tell he was a fantastic person to go along with his overflowing talent as a hockey player.

    Thoughts and Prayers to the UK Hockey family as well as the Vit family. Wont be the same when we play Kentucky in January.